BlogPost2: Forbidden Love

              Have you already found your soulmate? Have you asked yourself if he/she’s already the one? Are you compatible with him/her? Your answer could be yes or a resounding no. Or no idea at all.

Some people believe in happy ending and forever. Do these really exist in the first place? We find the one by entering in a commitment by courtship, and people sometimes say that they are really meant to be but you didn’t know that in every relationship there’s circumstances like you need to break up because of some reasons but you love each other but you need to set them free for a while. There’s a saying “If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they’re yours.” I believed in this once but I realized that we’re really meant for each other. Sometimes you fall in love with the wrong people even though you love each other but there’s a hindrance. It’s either you will fight your love or not.

In the article "What to do with Forbidden Love?" by Katherine Feeney, forbidden love is defined as a love that’s not allowed or permitted. Like in this article, it’s like you meet someone you really like, you always think of him, you hang out together until you fall in love with him, suddenly you’ll find out he’s already committed. So what will you do?“Tell your lover you’re in love with someone else. Tell him that you’re in love with her. It’s the honest thing to do. It’s easier said than done, of course. What if you’re left alone, rebuked, rejected and responsible for wreaking harm and hurt and unhappiness?”

There’s a story of this girl who fell in love with a guy who is in a relationship.They hangout together.One night,she texted the guy to meet her up. She’s very nervous because she’s already in love with him and she felt uneasy because she knows that he’s already in a relationship with someone else and she’s thinking of confessing that she likes him. When they got both drunk, the guy suddenly confesses that he also likes the girl and that the feeling is mutual. The guy left after the confession and never showed up to

the girl. The girl keeps on texting and finding out what’s wrong but to no avail. Until she finds out that the guy chose his relationship with his current girlfriend.
In life, we really have to let go and choose despite the fact that some feelings will get hurt. And fact of the matter is, the guy chose the relationship which he thinks isn’t forbidden even though he loves the girl.

In the movie “Avatar” by James Cameron, humans went to Pandora to look for resources that Earth is lacking. Jake who controls an avatar, meets Neytir, a female Na’vi and they fall in love with each other. Jake joined the Na’vi society in order to be accepted by their society and they accepted him and he

should gather intelligence on them and the home tree. But the Na’vi discovered he’s not one of them and they learned that he deceived themand planning to destroy their place and they think that people and them are not compatible. Jake defended himself but no one believed him,even Neytir. Jake didn’t give up and indeed helped the Na’vis fight the humans. Little by little, he has gained Neytir’s trust until they’ve won the battle. When Jake got hit and almost died, the Na’vis decided to transfer his spirit/soul to his avatar in order for him to live and be with Neytir.He sacrificed himself and became an avatar to forever be a part of the Na’vi society.

In life and in every circumstance, you should choose for the better. Sometimes you should set them free even though it hurts, but if you meet again it means you’re really meant to be. If you love someone then fight for them. If there’s something that’s hindering your relationship, then go the extra mile to fight for your love no matter what happens.Love is forbidden in so many places, for so many cultures, and for so many families, but the future is decided on how much the love for each other is.